The Christian EducatorA publication of North Valley Baptist Schools

Capturing the Hearts of Your Students

By Melisa Vance

Pastor Trieber often states that rules without relationship breeds resentment and rebellion.  This principle holds true even in the classroom.  A student will be more likely to respond positively to a teacher that has captured his heart.  Instruction and discipline will be more effective when the students are ruled by the heart.  It is the responsibility of the teacher to seek to capture the heart of the student.

Here are some helpful hints to help you capture the hearts of your students.

1. Pray for them.  This seems obvious, but it is often the last resort when dealing with a troublesome student. Before you throw your hands up and complain to the child’s parents, ask the Lord to give you great wisdom and discernment in dealing with that student.  God will come through and help you to be what that student needs.  He can work in a child’s heart. 

2. Always smile and say hello to your students when ever and where ever you cross paths.

3. Take the time to listen. Students have issues and needs just as important or urgent as you do. 

4. Bake for them.  The way to your students’ hearts is also through their stomachs. Bringing a treat, for no particular reason, will brighten your students’ day and let them know you care.

5. Remember each student’s birthday and do something special for them.  You do not need to purchase something expensive or elaborate.  I give my students a package of gum, a book mark, sticker, and a handwritten note.  It is not much, but the kids do love it.

6. Catch your students doing well and brag on them.  Teachers should praise accomplishments more frequently than correcting misbehavior.

7. Allow them to help you.  Children enjoy being able to help their teacher.  It gives them a sense of satisfaction.

8. Play with your students.  Of course children love to play, but for some strange reason, it is more exciting when their teacher joins in.  Do not worry about making a fool of yourself; just get out there and have some fun!

9. Meet their needs.  It may be something as simple as providing a fork for lunch or as important as after-school help.  If it is within your means to do it, then do it.

10. Write personal notes to your students.  It is amazing to watch your students read a note you have written to them.  It brings a smile to their face and a skip to their step.  Kind words are powerful! Use them generously.

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